Why it might be a good idea to install a spy app on their phones
If you’re like millions of Americans with aging parents, you worry about their safety and well-being. It’s kind of ironic since they worried about yours for decades as they raised you from infant to adulthood—and they still do. But now that mom and dad are getting up there in years, you realize that they are really the ones who need to be watched over more as their bodies wear down and their mental faculties start to show signs of deterioration. You realize that no matter how much you visit or how often you call, you can’t always be there to protect them. So what can you do?
A lot of people opt to have their parents(s) move in with them, but not everybody has the space … or the patience. Remember when you lived with your parents? How ready were you to move out when you were old enough? And don’t forget, having your parent live with you may be okay in your book, but is it okay in your spouse’s to have an in-law being around all the time? Would really want your father-in-law living with you? The answer is probably no.
Many retirees find themselves moving down to Florida or into an assisted living complex somewhere. That’s all good, but do they really have someone watching out for them? Is that person someone you can honestly trust? You hear all those horror stories about how a caregiver was stealing from an older man or abusing a bed-ridden woman or both—and it makes you sick to your stomach to think that it could happen to your parent. Yes, you can check their bank accounts and install nanny cams to assist you with monitoring your folks’ safety, but that may not be enough. The reality is that nothing is ever enough, but if you really want to cover all your bases, then you should seriously consider installing a cell phone monitoring app on your parents’ smartphones as well.
Spy gear such as spy cameras, audio surveillance and GPS trackers can help prevent abuse of elders. Sometimes you can’t rely on external factors to protect the ones you love.
Even a good mobile monitoring app will allow you to see who is calling and texting your parents—giving you a chance to weed out all of those scammers who prey on the old. It can also let you activate your parents’ microphone and camera so that you can hear and see what’s going in their surroundings—which can come in handy if they can’t answer their phone because they have fallen or are injured. Another huge perk of a mobile monitoring app is that you can track them via GPS if one of them goes missing—which happens more often than you think with older folks.
There are a lot of cell phone spy apps on the market today and it can be overwhelming to choose just one, so you need to figure out what it is you want before you decide. While you can’t always be there to take care of your parents, a good mobile monitoring app can be a huge help. Like nanny-cams and caregivers, it is another important tool in protecting your loved ones from unseen problems.